Fists to Love with, not to Harm.

 Hand play is underrated by many because we think of fists first in terms of violence, not loving instruments.  Sexx toys are marketable, but everybody has hands. Some big, some smaller, thick wrists and thinner.  The squeam factor likely comes from ignorance (morality?):  you don't take a fist into an orifice, but slowly insert a hand...

Intimacy and communication required. 

If it's not your thing, that's cool. Not everybody has sex to get off or share intimacy. Not everybody has sex.  That's cool too.

In this 21st century, as we decouple sexual practices from the evolutionary drive to procreate -- using technology over nature for better or worse as we have in so many fields -- and more people practice greater sexual freedoms, taboos fall.  Education matters. Porn can't show the act openly in the mainstream packaging, but the  unregulated markets can portray realities and yes, people learn from porn mixed with their own realities.

Think about it.  As we rely more and more on the government to teach the children basics, how are we going to get past simple penis-and-vagina templates?  Do you want government workers writing the curricula? Trust the people in the society you live in to set the standards? Can they distinguish between adults and children?

Or do you just practice your freedoms quietly and responsibly with consenting others, and hope everybody can just figure things out when they take they clothes off?  Keep the kids out of things, I say. 

Why can't we openly talk about sexual realities without calling everybody a pedophile, because you think it's gonna win your "side" votes, or without outing those people who paid for abortions, maybe changed their minds and struggled in the past? 

We've got enough unelected judges in society making things worse for people, not practicing peace or justice really.

Guns and fists, in the wrong hands, can hurt people worse than angry tongues. 

But they can also be used to provide for and protect, and to love others with. 

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