Monday, July 31

Still We Persist.

or, Gender Projections are Real.

It's hard being a strong outspoken woman because when people feel threatened by you, they're not inclined to like you.  Especially when they can tell you don't respect their ways, and refuse to conform to them yourself.  Many men don't like being topped anywhere, and a lot of women are hostile if another person makes choices they are unable to, for whatever reason.  

It's easier to disassociate and be yourself, leaving them to their little worlds with little ways with their like-minded people.  Little, because it refuses to be big enough to incorporate others who just don't fit their pre-determined patterns. I guess it's good not to fit in some places.  Freeing.  "If you don't want me (as I am), I don't want you..."

The conflicts arise when we have to share spaces and resources, and some refuse to go along with other people's little ways for themselves.  Sterotypes are made to be broken, even if for plenty, they hold true still. #ChChChChanges #TheFutureBelongsToTheFutureNotYourYesterdays #TheLastTimeIReadYourBlog  #YouGetOffOnHurtingOthers  #LaughWithNotAt #GrowUpLittleGirls